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Some people think I'm a closet lesbian while others say I'm straight. Still some think I'm bisexual. So, what is it? I don't even know myself. To make things easier I've always said I was bisexual, but now I'm not so sure. I guess now that I'm out of high school, I can let this out into the open. ^_^;

I've always been attracted to women. Especially their breasts: I'm definately a breast type person. I enjoy watching lesbian porn. I even enjoy kissing girls and whatnot. The thing is, I'm also very very attracted to men. Characterwise, even moreso than girls.

I don't like men so much for their looks. From my standpoint, my attraction to women is purely physical/sexual. I have no intentions of taking up any girlfriends ever again -- girls are just too hard to deal with emotionally. I know -- I've had that uh, 'joyful' experience. I like men for their characters. It's the funny and cute things a guy DOES that makes me like him -- not so much his looks.

Then, the funny thing is, I also love very feminine gay men. -- Who end up being the opposite of what I just described above. They look more masculine yet act more feminine. Why, then, do I like them? Perhaps it's because opposites attract. ;) I don't know.

So what am I? Bisexual? Straight? Lesbian?

I think I'm more bi-curious than anything. Even though, I Love looking at girls and love...er.. playing with them, I would classify myself under the bi-curious genre. Afterall, I know that in the end when push comes to shove, I'd pick a guy.

Why? Because I can relate better with a guy.

So now, what is it with all these girls that say they're bisexual? Are they really bisexual or are they just bicurious and buying into the trend? Why is it that it's OK for a girl to be bisexual and not a guy?

If a girl is bisexual than it's normal -- sometimes it's even deemed as a good thing; but if a guy comes out and says hes bicurious he's automatically labeled as 'gay'. Maybe that's why the girl-bisexuality trend has become so rampant.

They can be 'controversial' or 'taboo' without actually being pushed out of the 'normal' category.

The part I find funniest is that most of these so-called bisexual girls have probably never even thought about being with another girl in their life let alone kiss them or want to make love to one. The thought of giving another girl cunnilingus probably gives them stomach queasies. [Wait, it gives me stomach queasies too, but that has more to do with my concerns for hygene.]

So what is it with them? Are they bisexual? Are they trendy? Are they lesbians in the closet? Or are they just curious like me?>

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Posted by Kim @ 11:37 AM PST

7 have spoken

Hedonism-- been around for thousands of years but whenever it gets out of control the society crumbles huh. Not enough structure there. Oh yeah, I don't like men with hairy asses either. I like men with nice, smooth, round bottoms that I can squeeze and caress...

what was I talking about? *ahem* oh yeah. Hedonism. yeah. crazy ish.

Kim.

Posted by Kim @ 08/24/2001 12:04 PM PST

i think it's all about hedonism and a FUCK-YOU-SOCIETY-AND-CONFORMITY attitude. But sorry, the expected payoffs from getting pleasured by a guy is a lot less than the negative fall-out that guys who are bi receive. So I'm not bi-curious Kim. Besides, I like girls a lot more than guys. I don't wanna look at some hairy ass damnit.

Posted by dave [virtual dwelling] @ 08/24/2001 11:02 AM PST

Well, growing up with a gay cousin on one side of my family, and a transsexual uncle/aunt on the other, I'v grown up pretty tolerant. My cousin's philosophy is that EVERYONE is bisexual, it's more to what degree that's important, whether it's 99/1 or 50/50. Personally, I think I'm maybe 70/30. But when you come down to it, it's all about loving people for who they are, and gender is part of that, but not all of that.

Posted by TrickFred [e-meo] [virtual dwelling] @ 08/24/2001 03:59 AM PST

Yeah, girls are way more complicated than guys. I used to think,"If I was a lesbian, things would be so much easier." I know better now. We're walking contradictions. At least I am.

Posted by Michelle [virtual dwelling] @ 08/23/2001 05:33 PM PST

Wait... DAVE!! I never knew you were bi-curious!!??!!??!!

Posted by Kim @ 08/23/2001 12:33 PM PST

You DID say them you dork! haha actually, I've been reading a lot of girls online, and you were right... It's true.. none of them have even considered like... kissing another girl.. much less sexing em, and they're like oh yeah I'm bi.

Posted by Kim @ 08/23/2001 12:30 PM PST

hey-waita-minute

this all sounds familiar... half of them sound like something i would say. =p

Posted by dave @ 08/23/2001 11:57 AM PST